Misgendering refers to the act of accidentally or intentionally referring to someone by the gender pronouns they do not identify with. It’s uncomfortable being misgendered and it can lower your own self-worth and esteem, and that’s where to begin with learning to deal with it. You cannot change other people’s perception of you, or their thoughts or actions, but you…read more
Transgender / Transsexual
Transgender: Umbrella term that includes people whose gender identity or gender expression does not match their assigned birth sex.
Transsexual: Someone whose gender identity doesn’t match their assigned sex.
SRS is certainly not mutilation of the body, and there are so many misconceptions about it. But why are people so misinformed? Because they don’t want to be bothered knowing what SRS involves and the process after everything is healed because they classify SRS as encouraging a mental disorder. — I had sex reassignment surgery which means I mutilated my…read more
Bad Girl and I discuss how we’ve managed to overcome some of the obstacles of DID (dissociative identity disorder), and how this ties into being transgender. — I found a video by Bad Girl many months back that was listing some of her favorite trans people on YouTube. I was one of them and thanked her. We then became friends…read more
Zuzanna Mroz and I discuss our transition, transphobia, the LGBT community, transgender politics, as well as the cure for transgenderism / gender dysphoria. — Zuzanna had reached out to me for us to work together. I had never heard of her before, but agreed as the topics she wanted to discuss interested me. She was interested in talking about ‘controversial’…read more
Blaire White and I discuss LGBT and transgender topics, the causes of transgenderism, as well as political correctness. — It was so nice being able to talk with Blaire! Many people asked if I watched her videos since we do share many similar ideas and thoughts about transgenderism, transgender youth, and so on. There were a lot of people asking…read more
Being transgender is not one size fits all. There are variations and people experience varying levels of gender dysphoria. Whatever you feel you are, try it out and see how you actually like it. Only you can define yourself and how you feel you are. — Are you transgender? How do you know if you are transgender? Let’s talk about…read more
Having gender dysphoria is a struggle. It’s not easy and comes with so much mental anguish. Some claim it’s a mental disorder, and for some it may be. Regardless, it doesn’t matter. Once you get to the root of why you feel the way you do, even if it was due to past issues and trauma, your answers will come…read more
My friend Simiana and I discuss our experience being transgender women and transitioning from male to female. Simiana has been transitioning for a few years and has come a long way. I’m happy to call her a friend since we began talking in 2014. Simiana is in a band called the Quagaars. — While my friend Simiana was in the…read more
It’s been 3 years since my sex reassignment surgery (SRS) performed by Christine McGinn on March 4th, 2013. Unfortunately, my body is not healing the way it should and thus I continue to have issues that are primarily interfering with dilation. — Hi everyone! This is the three year update to my sex reassignment surgery. On March 4th, 2013, I…read more
Transitioning certainly brings about a lot of ambition and motivation. But, it doesn’t necessarily last because transition related goals come to an end after you’ve accomplished them. However, you can remedy this by having things in mind to replace transition related goals. Things that will bring about the same ambition since you can then direct your energy to those new…read more